4 High Energy Declarations that Heal Relationships and Financials
by Guest Contributor - Debbie D’Aquino
Each of us holds a power that can shift current reality. We can use this power to shift our emotions and heal ourselves.
The law of nature states everything has a vibration. Quantum physics explains how the universe is made of vibrating strings of energy. These vibrating strings also apply to the human being.
Every part of the human body emits a vibrational frequency including our thoughts, words, and intentions. If everyone knew that to be true, would we, as a society, be more discerning with our words and intentions?
Here's the thing, no one told us about vibrational frequency and discernment with our thoughts and words when we were growing up because we didn't have the technology at that time to prove what ancients were telling us.
Now we do.
When I read the book, “Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More”, by Joe Vitale and Ihaleakala Hew Len, PhD, I gained a new understanding that changed my life and the lives of my friends.
The Ho'oponopono Prayer
I learned how to change my vibrational frequency which changes my reality with four simple declarations:
- I love you.
- I am sorry.
- Please forgive me.
- Thank you.
What’s the magic behind these four declarations? It's a Hawaiian forgiveness prayer that literally means "to make right." The Hawaiian word for it is Ho'oponopono. It is used for problem solving.
I am a skeptic at heart so bear with me as I unfold this for you. I have many stories to tell but I've chosen two that made incredible changes quickly in my friends' lives. Then I’ll share the secret sauce behind how it works.
Here's how it went.
Financial Struggles Gone in Seven Days
We had just left a business network meeting and while walking to our cars, Geri mentioned she was facing a financial hardship. I didn't have a material solution to offer so I asked her if I could give her something spiritual. She replied, "Heck yeah, it can't hurt."
I gave Geri the four declarations I learned and I asked that she say them with sincerity every time she worried or even thought about her financial situation.
I told her to repeat them throughout the day when she was doing a mindless task like washing the dishes, taking a walk, taking a shower, driving the car.
"OK, but who am I saying it to?" Geri asked.
"Say it to yourself,” I replied.
That's often the most puzzling part of this amazing process. We speak it to ourselves.
Geri followed the directions and repeated the declarations sincerely multiple times a day.
Just one week later at our next meeting, Geri approached me. "This stuff really works! I can't believe it! I started saying the declarations just like you told me. In a few days, I found someone to rent the extra room in my house, so that's an extra $1200 coming in, and then by pure accident I meet a cosmetologist who is looking to change locations and I rented her a booth in my salon, so that's an extra $400 a month! I can't believe this stuff is working! Thank you!"
She had shifted her own energy and thus changed the energy in her surroundings.
Broken Relationship Repaired After Two Years
Another friend and I were in the midst of a physical work out when she shared how estranged her relationship with her brother has always been. They had not spoken a kind word for over two years; it was always an argument.
I asked permission of my friend, Mary, to share the four declarations that were having a profound effect on my life. I suggested she give it a try.
Starting the next morning on her daily run, Mary repeated her declarations. Over and over with sincerity she imagined her brother on the other end receiving these words along with herself.
After two weeks, like a miracle, the phone rang. It was her brother ringing her up out of the blue. “It was the best phone call we had had in years,” Mary said, “maybe ever.” Not a single argument came up. She gave all the credit to the Hawaiian process she had been practicing.
For Mary it was a miracle.
The Secret Sauce
It's not about babbling phrases like a robot; it's about placing loving intention and sincere meaning behind each word that brings a powerful shift in the reality around you.
Say these declarations to the child inside you that was hurt many years ago, the part of you that craves attention, the grief you may still hold over a loss. Say it to the anger that popped out last week or the person you’re having a hard time forgiving.
For Even Greater Understanding ....
- Take 100% responsibility for everything that has shown up in your life as you repeat the declarations.
- Honestly apologize to the world and everyone in it for any part you may have contributed to adding hurt or judgement, whether knowingly or unknowingly.
- Humbly ask forgiveness for that conscious or unconscious contribution.
- Truthfully feel gratitude, appreciation, and thankfulness.
The whole world needs to know and apply this process so that every person can experience their best life ever.
Are you willing to give it a try?
It's easier than you think and requires only focused, loving intention.
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